A Q&A With A Companionship Volunteer
Loneliness is a massive problem in the UK, effecting people of all ages – but it can be particularly detrimental to elderly people who, due to loneliness, can be at risk from quicker cognitive decline and dementia (Loneliness Awareness Week)
In response, we launched Abbots Friends — a volunteer-led initiative aimed at tackling loneliness in our communities. Our incredible volunteers give their time to sit with clients for a friendly chat, offering much-needed social connection to those who need someone to talk to.
We spoke with Rubie, one of our fantastic Abbots Friends volunteers, to hear why she got involved and what she’s learned through the experience.
Q: Hi Rubie! What inspired you to become a companionship volunteer?
A: I was inspired to become a companionship volunteer because I wanted to give back to my local community. I also wanted to build my confidence in a new space, I would like to have a career in health and social care, and through Abbots Friends and providing companionship I can prepare myself for that.
Q: What does your role as an Abbot’s Friend volunteer involve?
A: As an Abbots Friends volunteer, I spend time with different people, sitting with them and having a chat. This provides them with companionship they may have missed if their family and friends aren’t able to visit them.
Q: What has stood out to you during your time volunteering?
A: One thing that stood out to me during my time volunteering is the positive impact I can have on people’s lives. I see people smile when I enter a room, because I provide them with the company and the listening ear they need.
Q: What do you enjoy most about being a volunteer?
A: I enjoy being a volunteer because I can put a smile on people’s faces by giving them my time. It’s a good feeling! I really enjoy hearing about their lives and things they used to do.
Q: How has companionship volunteering helped you personally?
A: Volunteering with Abbots Friends has helped me to feel more confident when talking to new people. It has also taught me how having a conversation, even just for a short amount of time, can have a hugely positive impact on someone.
Q: What advice would you give to someone thinking about becoming a companionship volunteer?
A: One thing I would say to someone thinking about becoming a companionship volunteer is – don’t be scared to start. Starting is always the hardest part of something new, but being a companionship volunteer is very rewarding, and the positive impact can be seen immediately.
Q: Why do you think companionship is important for the people you support?
A: Some people can be alone all day, so it makes a massive difference to them when someone comes in, offers some conversation, and breaks their day up. Sometimes the people I see are having a bad day, and it makes all the difference if I can be there to give them some positive reinforcement and help them feel better than they did before.
Want To Get Involved?
We are always looking for new volunteers to get involved with Abbots Friends and all the fantastic work we are doing in the community.
Find out more by emailing our friendly team at enquiries@abbotsfriends.com
